helpmefromn's story
helpmefromn's story
It's so good that we remind ourselves what the lesson in all of it is. I am still so stunned at how things unfolded for me. This guy is Yale educated, super handsome, and popular and the biggest con-artist out there-- I knew that while we were together but he hid the evil under his looks and education and being friends with celebrities.
He would react so defensively if I said something as stupid as 'your bathroom needs cleaning', and when I called him out on loving fashion and looking in the store windows reflection, he told me to stop scrutinizing him.
But I found out that he cheated on me, and this is what hurts the most. He had this girl lined up because when I finally broke it off, he freaked out, cried his crocodile tears and all, but then found out he had a new gf thru a friend of friend. Ok, I managed to handle that because after all we were broken up, right??
Well, I found out her name -- she is 20 years old - he is 30 and I found pictures of him on her facebook dating back to March. I called him out on it, and guess what happened..... 2 days later, the facebook account was deleted! He manipulated her into taking it off, I presume. I am so hurt, and now I get why he could never say 'i love you', and i get why he would always get me to apologize for everything, and why even after i said, DONE, he barely tried to get me back... but i need to know that this won't be forever..
I feel so infected by him. I never want to talk to him again, but secretly want him to call so I can ignore him
this 20 year old he is seeing is stunning, a model, and then some and a LEO like him.. and I feel ill thinking they are happy together.
Him a Judge??? No way!
Welcome helpmefromn
Hang In There
They aren't happy together.
blowing up? like has
You are a gem, thanks so
Also, I will add that I
helpmefromn
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