JP38417's story
JP38417's story
Married 19 years, two kids. Have wanted divorce for about 18 years. Didn't really know was a N was until my Dr. told me. I went to see him for stress. I knew most of the stress was coming from living with someone I do not like and having to live up to such high standards. i have to take med's to just live with this man.....that is not right. This man lacks empathy and is not capable of nuturing.
Day one after a miscarriage I was asked how long I was going to be sad because he was 'getting tired of this'. Day after surgery in an attempt to conceive, I was starving and asked for something to eat. He did fix me something but when I asked for more was told he was tired because I kept him up all night and he needed to sleep. Vacation with friends is a joke because they talk about him behind his back...he plans things for everyone and expects everyone to comply.
He has been making his friends angry lately with his single minded, I am always right attitude. He wants to be the center of attention constantly and does not care how he gets it. His children do not want to go any where with him because he promises them things to get them to go and then denies the promise. Son has anxiety disorder and it is a constant battle. He does not like his dad and they both get physical with each other. Concerned about the kids and the impact of divorce but I simply cannot live with the do as I say not as I do attitude.
The two of us are toxic together as I began the fight you every step of the way attitude years ago. He see's it as simply a lack of support (me attitude). Would love to talk to someone about what I am going thru and help me find confirmation that exiting this relationship is the right thing to do.
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JP38417
Welcome JP38417
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The light is coming on
Ns ARE Control Freaks
JP for short,,"walking on eggshells"
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