cord cutting?

cord cutting?
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I keep hearing about this psychic cord cutting, what is that and how do you do it? I am so tired of my intrusive thoughts about him, I'd like to see if it would help clear my mind.

thanks for you input!

Monica's picture

I had read about this, too, and posted some time ago....

...about it. But I'm not sure exactly how to do it or if you need a psychic to assist or what. I am very interested to read other responses of those who may have done this or have researched it more.

Ellen's picture

Hi Angie

Hi Angie,

You can do cord cutting by following a tape or something from the internet or you can do it yourself.

I sometimes lay in bed and do one of the routines i was taught. It just means getting an imaginary pair of scissors or golden sword. Cut through the cord that connects you to the undesired. I throw the end that belongs to him up to the sky to connect there (or just chuck away cos i couldn't care where it ends actually). Then I just rub the area and imagine the stub of that cord gets reabsorbed back to me.

Others may have a website or a book to recommend. I don't know if it works but it does make me a little shakey afterwards case he gets cross and can sense it.

Barbara's picture

cord cutting

I've tried it - it didn't work...
http://healing.about.com/cs/energyhealing/a/cutcords.htm

but this did:
https://www.e-junkie.com/ecom/gb.php?ii=125196&c=cart&aff=21165&ejc=2
(Hypnosis got the brainwashing & obsessive thoughts in - HYPNOSIS will help get it out)

are you seeing a Trauma Counselor? This is part of PTSD and needs to be dealt with ASAP

~~~~~~~~~
The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem

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cynthia's picture

Cord Cutting?

I have a better idea, just buy a toy gun and pretend you shot him in the head, there he is dead now.

Ellen's picture

cynthia you're hired

Hi Cynthia,

I like it............explains just how i feel now. That's hiliariously put and i can feel the finality in your words. Like enough is enough of this BS.

ha ha
xx

Sinead's picture

I tried it

And got some really weird reactions from both myself and the people I cut from. Not sure if it works but I felt better for doing it. I did it on ExP and I was told the next day he was raging round picking fights and bullying people (no-one knew I'd done this), then weeks later I did it to get rid of a predator that wouldn't leave me be (friend of ex's) and all of a sudden he was texting and calling non stop (his contact was quite limited before then) and up til last week he was still trying to get hold of me. I sent him a text telling him not to ever contact me again, I told friends of his who are also friends of mine and they kept him away. I then changed my phone number.

No idea if it works, the reactions I got within myself were of a massive black force trying to engulf me as I was trying to cut the cord and I was filled with a really weird fear, this could well be from within myself not from him, I do believe in evil forces and I do believe he works with them or is one of them, I have a strong faith in God and I believe that faith brings me through.

Try it and see what works for you, get rid of anything that reminds you of him, change contact details, make new friends, keep yourself busy, treat yourself, try to keep yourself from thinking of him, see a therapist.

Amazed's picture

Cord Cutting,,question about psychic impact

My N told me he was "telekenetic" and "psychic" and often wondered what that meant.

I sometimes feel he is still trying to control me psychically, by causing bad things to happen,,does anyone believe in something like that?

Barbara's picture

Narcs + Psychic Abilities

http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com/2007/09/do-narcissists-attract-supe...

http://narcissists-suck.blogspot.com/2007/10/residential-evil.html

I always thought Psycho-Boy had some sort of powers... then I was schooled about hypnosis, mind control and brainwashing. But there was more to it. My therapist explained it thusly:

"Blind people are missing one sense - so they develop others... like a hyperawareness about feelings, and so on. It makes sense pathologicals are maybe a little psychic, but not in a good way. They can sniff out vulnerability. They have no emotions and no soul... so they intuit people who have loads of spirituality & empathy to spare and suck them dry."

Made perfect sense to me from then on.

more:
http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2010/01/02/being-duped#comment-21809

~~~~~~~~~
The truth will set you free... but first it will piss you off - Gloria Steinem

Visit My Abuse Website

Amazed's picture

This is Good Knowledge Barbara

Very scary, and I feel for that woman whose mother was a N and had to live in fear. That is no way to live!!!

You have to save your soul, and sounds like she knows where happiness and goodness is. Far away from Narcville!!

No foolin,,this is serious. I have had many horrible things happen to me since I met the N,,and this may explain it.

Thank you for the post....

cynthia's picture

felt that too

one time he called me and he was watching the Wizzard of OZ, which I LOVE and I said why are you watching that, thought it was odd, and he said I always watch it, its my favorite movie, weird huh. I didnt tell him it was mine too, I remember watching it as a child on my dads lap, thats not psychic but strange how many similarities we had, and how often he would say things about me that were true that nobody else knew.

Sinead's picture

Makes sense to me too

ExP was "devoutly religious" that's how he was recommended to me when we married. On the outside he knew the Quran inside out, regularly practised it, attended the mosque, was known for his bad treatment in his country for practising his religion (that may or may not be true as his country is known for it), he fought against his government from a young age (signs of psychopathy in childhood and early adulthood).

Inside, he claimed I knew nothing about the religion and he would have to teach me from scratch. When I first married him he blinded me with "science", I remember having a thought like "wow it's like I married our prophet he is so knowledgeable" I distinctly recall seeing a smirk on his face as I thought that which I found unnerving, like he knew exactly what I had thought. So I ignored an early red flag in my opinion.

Whichever house we stayed in I also felt a presence, much like the links you posted describe, in the later years of the marriage I saw it, it was a headless man and I always saw it in the night, my daughter tells me she saw it many times in her room and I remember from about age 2 she would always be telling me she didn't like the man in our house, I could feel its presence a lot.

When he left I saw it once and my daughter also saw it, I told it to leave us alone and I have not seen it since, I removed his stuff from the house and it is feeling so much lighter and purer.

There is a kind of presence with my Ndad too. One night he sent me a text that said "the last toffee has left the tin" that was the night that ExP had beaten me across the head and caused permanent damage, to this day I get repeating headaches on that side and it is suspected that the skull was partly fractured at the time, scans have been done but they were months too late as I never spoke out. That was also the night that I decided I was definitely leaving and was planning my escape, the text was like a prediction to me, like a statement of the truth, it was really weird.

Another time I left a note for a guy in a shop that ExP has a partnership in, this was to be passed to the guy's wife as part of a contract to get my money back off ExP (this was in the early days of him being taken away and me with no knowledge of pathologicals), apparently after I left, ExP came in and went straight to where I'd left the note, only one guy knew where it was, the guy who was supposed to find it as I'd sent him a text as to where it was, it was well hidden, now it is entirely possible that the guy told ExP as he turned out to be a predator in the end as well but at the same time, I wouldn't be at all surprised that ExP just went to it. Whenever I hid anything in the house, ExP would find it immediately, as if he had a hidden power or something unseen that was informing him.

We believe that there are creatures made of fire called jinn, jinni singular (genie in the west, and don't get confused with the Disney interpretation), these can be seen or unseen depending on what they want from you, they can be all religions and good or bad, we believe that every person has one with them at all times, it can be good or bad, it will talk to us to misguide us but we are stronger than them if we have faith. It is forbidden to talk with these creatures except in the case of exorcision to remove them from a body only.

Those who do talk with these creatures can see the unseen, sometimes parts of the future (but we believe God does not allow them to see everything), this explains fortune tellers who get some things right.

ExP claimed he exorcised many people before he married me over a long period of time and these jinn were out to get him (it's written that you burn the jinn when they leave the body which makes them angry and they can turn on an exorcist), he always had bad dreams, he'd shout, catch his breath, sometimes scream (this is a sign of someone possessed), he once punched me in his sleep (he claimed he was asleep, I don't know if it is true or not) and he punched me where the head of my daughter lay when I was pregnant as if attempting to kill her.

ExP behaved as though he was talking with them or possessed by them, in his rages he had abnormal strength, he knew things I'd done or thought without any possibility of him knowing unless he was literally on my shoulder day in day out which he wasn't when he had me working 100 hours a week to get his income.

The only explanation is as the link says and that does tie in with what we believe in our religion.

becoming sane's picture

I have wondered about this .

There have been times I've thought that the house could be bugged ( still suspect this ) I have also caught my N sneaking around the house trying to " catch " me doing who knows what, but I do think he has snuck up on conversations I'm having ... Oh another thing I just remembered anyones narc play hard of hearing ? Yet make a snide comment and they pick right up on it ... Must be that selectivly developed sense of hearing that they just know when your calling them names under your breath :)

4joys4's picture

I dont know about cord

I dont know about cord cutting but I have been seeing a hypnotherapist. It has helped so much. Mine makes a tape of our sessions so I can listen twice a day at home. It helps with the anxiety and low self esteem, intrusive thoughts. For me it was not a one time thing. I have to make time to listen to the tapes. Sometimes I get lazy, but they do help.