When I met my Narc ex he had been married twice. First wife aborted baby and left him after 8 months. 2nd wife had three children from him now in late teens and early 20's. They have not seen him for 6 years...they hate him for the abuse he gave them.
During my time with him our whole relationship was dominated by him missing his kids.....it took over my life. However he never did the right thing to get them back. He did things to make them hate him even more. It was always emails to them stating 'for my part in what happened ' as if they had some blame too. I wanted him to take full responsibility. It caused major rows between us.
I have a two year old for him and he has said that he wants to see him but when given the opportunity he does not take it.
His new GF is a heavy drinker like him and they spend alot of time socialising like a young single couple with no responsibilities, doing what they like when they like.
Does he never miss his kids?