It seems that the N's can't say goodbye to us, or if they do the d&d a certain percentage of them resurface weeks, months or even years later. When I dumped mine I just silently disappeared and went NC, but he keeps trying to get back in my life--months later.
What is your collective opinions on this. Is it better just to silently vanish or should I have either written a detailed letter explaining why I don't want anything to do with him anymore with a big GOODBYE on it, or a phone call trying to explain?
I didn't think he would hear anything I had to say, or turn it around and just turn all the negative things I said into more supply, making him think I gave a damn. Somehow I thought the disappearing act would be the best revenge. What do you think?