Better than a comedy show!!!! You just soooo know what hes up to. Waiting for a reaction. IGNORE.Remember a 6 year old in a man`s body!!!!!!!!!!!

My exN made me chuckle to myself when I was ignoring all his incessant texts, voicemails, phonecalls before I changed numbers when amongst all the sad, sorry, ( no not "sorry" - there were never ever any "sorry" ones more SORRY FOR HIMSELF) I love you, I miss you, look what you`ve done to us, you`ll regret giving up such a wonderful thing as we so good together, i feel like my stomachs been wripped out, i cant eat/sleep, ive got it bad, im hurting etc etc he sent the following trying a different approach for a response: (here you have to bear in mind that I pride myself on not being the sort to sleep around (as he so has), I am not the sort to go drinking until drunk in not so fashionable areas trying to pick up anything (as he so has during breakups), not the sort to jump straight into a relationship after breaking up from a serious long term relationship(as he so has) and bearing in mind after the break up and feeling absolutely depressed, excrutiatingly painfully hurt, demoralised, demeaned, devalued (see my share a story) id been hiding myself in bed for days:

voicemail in sad sorrowful tone: "Babes, can you ring me. I`ve heard something about you and who you`ve been with around ****** and i`d like to clear it for myself from you" (******= a very rough area I wouldnt be seen dead in! I knew why he was sending it, he was changing tactics and thought I would bite as he knew Id be appalled if my name was associated with anything around there but I stayed NC.)

voicemail in sad woe is me tone: "Doll, can you ring me. The psycho ex thinks she has something to tell you about me and I want you to hear me out first" (absolute bull as I have never spoken to said ex wife. She has had no intention of ever speaking to me, all trouble shes ever caused was via him - again thinking id bite)

voicemail in a very angrier than angry tone: "Take your hand off your new mans pr**k and use it to ring me before I come looking for you and find you"
(funny that - I was waiting for that one!) I am so glad ive gone no contact as I dont need to hear anymore of his cr*p.

mind games. he's trying to get a reaction out of you.

next time... and there WILL be a next time...

RETURN TO SENDER... DELIVERY REFUSED!! PLEASE!!!!!

and as far as this one goes - you never got it. Act dumb.

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