Newcomers:
Welcome, we are glad you have found your way here... However, you should know that the topics here could be very personal, intense and challenging. Advice is given freely to those who come here. You may get advice you don’t agree with but, we encourage you to listen to those who have been through detaching and leaving an Narcissist and learned from it.

It may take up to 48 hours for your membership to be approved and activated so please be patient.

Please use accounts OTHER than Hotmail, as Hotmail is notorious for being spam and is often automatically deleted. And be SURE you give a full explanation as to why you wish to be on this board or you will not be approved.

[if you are NOT approved after 48 hours, you may need to send us a fuller REASON as to why you want to join. 98% of non-approved accounts are because the REASON FOR JOINING section is not filled in, cryptic, or incompatible.]

If you pay attention your journey to healing will be made easier and, you might even grow emotionally, learn how to face some painful truths about yourself and your situation and leave here a better person.

Numerous IDs:
Do not use more than one forum screen name, etc. We consider anyone who has numerous IDs in the forum as a troll. Trolls are not allowed on the All About Him Support Forums and will be banned.

Proselytizing:
Proselytizing is not allowed on the All About Him Support forum. This is not a place to try and convert others to your beliefs. Share your opinion but if someone does not agree with that opinion respond graciously.

Keep Your Posts Civil:
Treat others with respect. We expect heated discussion of many topics, but those discussions must remain civil. Keep your language clean, watch your words and if you run across someone who irritates you, then stay away from that person’s posts. No flaming will be allowed.

This includes judging, shaming, blaming or finger-pointing at people who had affairs with Narcissists or were lured into a relationship with a married Narcissist. Please learn about how Narcissists lure and brainwash you into this sort of relationship before blaming anyone's morals or ethics. This is a ban-able offense.

Posting in ALL CAPS:
Don't post a whole post in ALL CAPS. It looks as if you're shouting, and it is hard to read. A WHOLE POST in ALL CAPS is unacceptable. Occasional CAPS for emphasis are fine, however.

Yes, We Will Ban People From the Forum:
People who abuse the forum guidelines and terms of use may be banned, as well as those who use the forum to email members with unsolicited and/or abusive messages. We understand that you are going through a situation that is very stressful. Sometimes you need to vent and that is OK, Just don’t abuse others or the forum in the process.

We have already had to ban a couple people who attacked Lisa and Barbara because they refused to go No Contact after months on this forum, yet continued to complain and attack anyone who gave them advice. That alone is reason for banning.

Adult Children of Narcissists (ACONS)
This forum is primarily for those who have been in relationships with Narcissists. While ACONS are welcome to stick around - you may find more direct support for the issues with your Narcissistic Parent by CLICKING HERE.

ALSO:
Beware! You are making a public post!

Every single message posted here will be available to the worldwide public.

All your messages will be indexed by search engines like Google.com, Bing.com and so on, and once Google picks up a message, it can virtually take months before you get a chance to replace or update the message stored on Google cache.

Do not disclose any personal info in your message, unless that is what you want to do. Keep your name, your email address, your phone number, location ... private!

Also, if you leave or are banned remember Lisa E. Scott owns this site and the copyright to all material on the site. We simply CAN NOT and WILL NOT 'erase all your posts.' Once posted they are the property of the site.

If you want to get in touch with another member off-list contact Barbara, the Forum Moderator, at the email below.

Be SURE to sign up with a NICKNAME that your alleged Narcissist/ Abuser WILL NOT KNOW. We do not want your or other people's Narcissist/Abusers coming here and reading posts and then using them to further abuse and attack. Be mindful of what you say. If you need to change your NICKNAME, let Barbara know.

This board is in no way a replacement for professional therapy, legal or medical advice.

We hope you find support, validation and the road to healing here.

Lisa E. Scott
lisalou2@gmail.com
http://allabouthim.com

Barbara
Forum Moderator
Coach for Victims of Pathologicals
one2one4victims@gmail.com
http://abusesanctuary.blogspot.com