I was wondering if N's are EVER consistent about anything? My exN never finishes what he starts. He can't seem to have consistency in anything in his life! He called really late one night wanting to talk to daughter and I texted him telling him she was asleep and he could call her on Wednesdays at 7:00. He has gone ballastic since, calling nonstop. I don't think its so much that he wants to talk to her (since he's recently gone weeks without calling) but the whole idea that I gave him a specific day and time that set him off. Probably because he doesn't have control of the situation? What do you think is fair time for him to pick up daughter? Court orders states 6:00 pm. but my stupid lawyer told him he had until 7:00. He texted me last nite and said, "I have until 7:00, rules are rules!" I texted him back and said, "lawyer said 7:00, judge said 6:00, umm, who do you think rules that court???" As far as phone calls go, what do you think is fair as far as how many times a week? I wish "never" but I know I can't keep her from him. He told me my daughter was going to hate me when she grows up for keeping her from him. I'm not trying to keep her from him, I just want consistency! He expects her to jump to the phone when he calls and she doesn't. He is not part of her everyday life nor does he stay in contact regularly so she treats him the way he treats her. She'll talk to him when she feels like it. I don't think I should force her to talk to him if she doesn't want to. How bout all the times he's left her crying for him and he just couldn't make time for her?