I have to be worried at FB sometimes. It is very public I wouldn't be comfortable about my kids on there either. Plus did you know they actually own the rights to all of our photos and information once you put stuff up there? They can do anything they like with the photos, it's in the terms and conditions. Applications that get sent to you via friends (invites etc) those applications have full rights also and you don't even have to accept the application it just needs to be sent to you via a friend.

I think the only good thing about FB is it makes it hard for the N's to cheat if they are trying to hook in a couple of women at once. My N had to remove his girlfriend as a FB friend for like a year! He would also delete any photo tags of her and him together, wall posts she would write etc. I told my therapist and she laughed and said "I wonder what he told her." I was chatting to a friend and he told her it was a technical glich! And she believed him, that is how hooked they make us. A technical glich! He isn't even smart.

I used to think he didn't have a GF because his FB was clear. BUt I was wrong. He constnatly was on it, on his phone etc to make sure nobody was writing anything that could incriminate him and if it did...it went!!! Deceitful jerk.

there are SO MANY PERVS & PREDATORS online
they can easily copy your kids' pictures
it's evidence of his lack of boundaries and NOT CARING about their safety - ONLY CARING ABOUT HOW IT MAKES HIM LOOK LIKE SOMETHING'S HE'S NOT!!

http://www.physorg.com/news141308850.html

REMOVE THEM!!! STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK & SAY AND LISTEN TO YOUR GUT!!!

you: I'd like the kid's pics taken off of Facebook
him: My friends & family like to see them
you: you can send them via email. Take them off Facebook
him: you aren't being fair
you: Take the pictures off Facebook
him: you are being paranoid
you: I can be as paranoid as I want. So what? Remove the pictures from Facebook
him: They're my kids too
you: Last time, it is not safe. I will be putting it in writing. Any further discussion will go through my lawyer. Remove the pictures from Facebook.

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"As soon as you feel that crazy sense of walking on eggshells, fending off N-rage, stop. Walk away." - Dr. M. Beck

What if the roles were reversed and he didn't want you putting kids' pics on fb? He would never allow you to do something against his wishes. Do what you feel in your heart is right. He's just using his kids to get supply from others anyway. They are tools for him. Stand your ground. He has got to learn you will not budge. Your values are importantant weather he thinks so or not.

~Give a Narc an inch and they become the ruler~

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