I've been married for 26 years, and for the last 20 years or more, I've been trying to figure out what is wrong with this relationship? Is it me? Did I just simply marry the wrong man? He seems happy enough, why am I so miserable? Why do I feel o.k. when I'm at work, but lonely, sad, tired, no energy or motivation to get anything done when I'm home? All I want to do is sleep.

But the more I read on this website, the more I think I'm figuring out what is wrong with my marriage. I had someone suggest to me years ago that my husband might be a narcissist, but I didn't really have any idea what she meant. But now I think I'm starting to understand. When you say you couldn't focus on things enough to get them done, and you felt drained and run over by a train, boy, that sure hits home for me!

Thanks again! I'm sure glad I found this website, I think it's going to help me figure out what to do.