spells

spells
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My ns always say to me that i must have put a spell on him and accused me of being a witch ??? whats that all about ?.

I still have to work with the freak , how do i do the no contact when i do have to contact him tomorrow morning ?
im only at 8 days no contact
peru x

Carolyn's picture

Maybe you should play into

Maybe you should play into that by leaving little 'things' like a black feather or some other junk that will un-nerve him and smile like you have a secret. I know someone who told her narcissist husband he would develop a disease if he didn't honor the no-contact and she left a chicken foot on his car with the nails painted black and a black ribbon tied around it. that is goofy but it worked he quit botheriing her immediately.

You aren't dealing with a normal person so sometimes you have to get creative.

Barbara's picture

I wouldn't

you don't know HOW he will react if you did this sort of game-playing nonsense.

it's potentially dangerous.

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Barbara's picture

full of crap

spare me, a witch? - boo hoo - pity play & blame shifting! it's your fault his life is a flippin' mess... LOL NOT!

exNH Told our Marriage Counselor I PUT A CURSE ON HIM and she MADE me 'take it off' in counseling.

OMG what jerks!

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