links to find help - explore every avenue and do NOT cop out by saying "I have no money." A good legal assistant will figure something out for you!!

http://www.allstateinvestigation.com/familylaw.html
(scroll down to your state)

http://www.divorcenet.com/

http://www.divorce360.com

http://www.divorcesource.com

http://family-law.freeadvice.com/child_custody/

http://topics.law.cornell.edu/wex/table_divorce

http://www.divorcelawinfo.com/

http://www.womansdivorce.com/

http://www.totaldivorce.com/

http://www.womenslaw.org
Click on WHERE TO FIND HELP then - FINDING A LAWYER

http://www.abanet.org/
They will help you get to your State's Bar Association and refer you to legal assistance, possibly free or sliding scale.

I say this to all with love & concern - sitting online bitching about it will not help you legally. Taking definitive, positive action will.