IT IS VERY DIFFICULT TO GET RID OF A NARCISSIST
In order to free yourself from emotional "hook" your narcissistic spouse has embedded into your brain you must realize that you are a complete, whole person on your own.
You do not need narcissist to make you happy and worthy, you can create your own happiness. You alone choose how your life will evolve, do not let narcissist make decisions for you.
Once you realize that separation from narcissist is actually a good thing rather than bad, you have taken a huge step towards recovery.
Recovery from depression or burn-out takes long time and may even require medication. Same applies to recovery from bad relationships. If you feel your life with your narcissistic spouse is taking you to this direction, please continue reading and find out how to stop the process before things go too far.
LIFE WITH A NARCISSIST IS ENDLESS MISERY
Living with a narcissist is hell and heaven combined. In the beginning it is all heaven, but as time goes by clouds slowly hide the sun and the hell breaks loose. This happens so slowly that the victim does not even realize what is going on before it is too late.
Narcissist can make you feel as if you are the most important and special person to them in the whole world. They talk about their never-ending love towards you, and most likely they also believe in their own words at that moment. So, ironically, narcissist is not really pretending or lying when he or she is praising how much he or she loves you. Narcissist is telling you the truth at that moment.
But sadly the target of the love of a narcissist changes rapidly, because narcissist is always longing for excitement and thrill.
Narcissist is "loving" you as long as you give narcissist what he or she wants, which is admiration and unconditional love. This will keep narcissist satisfied for some time. But the moment will come when narcissist will no longer get excitement and fulfillment out of the relationship with you. When that moment comes, narcissist will start to look for another provider of narcissistic supply, without which narcissist cannot live.
A narcissist cannot stand being alone, so they will often end up cheating their husband or wife and/or while they look for next Love Of Their Life. Once they find next provider of narcissistic supply, they will dump the present partner often in cold, emotionless manner. And on and on and on