Am I crazy?

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#1 Aug 25 - 4AM
kw369134
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Am I crazy?

I'm not sure if my ex is a narcissist or I'm just sensitive and crazy. I met him at work and on the outside he is a funny charming guy. When we dated he always said when anyone gets close to him they always leave him. He had just gone through a bad divorce and I felt empathy for him. He was always nice to me, opened the car door for me, and we had a great friendship. Long story short we married and I discovered he had absolutely no empathy for me, was extremely selfish, didn't do housework or yard work because he didn't like to. If we ever fought he would act like a 5 year old, mock my voice,. He would never apologize for anything. He was very financially irresponsible. Was jealous of anyone who had anything he didn't. He once laughed at me when I was pouring my heart out crying to him and told me I looked funny. He would get mad and ignore me if I cried. He would talk in a harsh tone and if I asked him why he was mad he would say "you'll know when I'm mad. No problems between us were ever solved because if it wasn't his way he would just clam up and not talk for long periods of time. He would deny saying trivial thing that I know he had said. He only acted like this in private, in front of everyone else he was great. We weren't even divorced before he was dating someone new. Now all I can think of is the good times we had, if it was all just me, and why I miss him so much and want him back. I'm hurting so much.

Aug 28 - 12AM
freedom4me2
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Am I Crazy?

Aug 26 - 1PM
Lookforward
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Now all I can think of is the

Aug 26 - 9AM
Layla
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Is he a narcissist???