Rejecting the Rejectors- Curious How The Narcs Process This....

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#1 Apr 13 - 10AM
blessingindisguise
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Rejecting the Rejectors- Curious How The Narcs Process This....

I am going through divorce from narc. We have children, but I am NC with narc and his family. Sometimes I have had to go LC with narc because of our children, but it is rare.

Narc is living with OW and does not live close by. I am so thankful for this. He knows I want nothing to do with him and that I am completely disgusted by him, his family and want absolutely nothing to do with any of these toxic people.

He still tries to be abusive if he has the opportunity but the opportunity for this is rare since I basically cut him off at the knees. My family wants nothing to do with him or his family and will not acknowlege any of them. There is complete rejection. The bottem line is the rejector is being rejected in return. I have myself and my life back and he knows it. He knows we all look at him and his family as toxic, disgusting losers. I am a little curious how this resonates with the narc. Any thoughts?

Apr 14 - 9AM
midnight7
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Ns don't care, they really

Apr 14 - 6AM
Renegade
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They view you as property.

Apr 14 - 3PM (Reply to #12)
tootsgee
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the ex n.. used to say to me

Apr 14 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
blessingindisguise
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Renegade

Apr 14 - 11AM (Reply to #8)
abusednomore
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My exN's ex wife kept his

Apr 14 - 3PM (Reply to #9)
tootsgee
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so did my ex n ex wife and

Apr 15 - 7AM (Reply to #10)
abusednomore
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i dont think she ever

Apr 15 - 8AM (Reply to #11)
tootsgee
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Same for his ex . She didn't

Apr 13 - 10AM
Deidre99
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First, i'm so happy that

Apr 13 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
blessingindisguise
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So true, Deidre99!

Apr 14 - 8AM (Reply to #5)
missym
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I too went back to maiden name

Apr 13 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Deidre99
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I'm truly impressed that your

Apr 14 - 10AM (Reply to #4)
blessingindisguise
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Deidre99