What becomes of Narcs?

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#1 Mar 19 - 12PM
mustmoveon
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What becomes of Narcs?

Since one of our primary goals as victims of N, to have NC with them ever, I don't know if anyone will be able to answer this question or provide any anecdotes.

I am wondering what becomes of N's/what ends, consequences they meet/experience as a result of their mistreatment of people, and women, in particular. Dr. Vaknin says that they wind up broken, alone, and/or destitute, but that's really vague because that can happen to anyone.

In my case, I was with a somatic N for 5 years who's probably ef'fed hundreds, if not, thousands of women around the world (his job took him abroad, or so he claimed) over the course of his 50+ years as a N. Nothing really bad ever seemed to happen to him. He was always "upbeat" and happy-go-lucky. Statistically, it seems impossible that he should have gotten away with murder for so long and not have to pay any kind of price. You would think a husband or boyfriend would've beaten the tar out of him by this point (I found out that my N targeted women who had significant others or children, so that way, they would be tied down so he wouldn't have to take care of them). I'm not sure if he's even ever had a STD as a result of his promiscuity.

Mar 19 - 5PM
onwithmylife
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mustmoveon

Mar 19 - 4PM
Trainwreck56
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WHO GIVES A SHIT!

Mar 19 - 2PM
prettypeeved
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Well, based on what slips

Mar 19 - 3PM (Reply to #17)
mystwoman
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Boy prettypeeved, this is xnh

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Mar 19 - 2PM
IncognitoBurrito
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Ugh

Mar 19 - 1PM
Sparrow
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Sam the man is right. They

Mar 19 - 1PM
midnight7
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Who cares what happens to a

Mar 19 - 1PM (Reply to #12)
mustmoveon
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You are right...

Mar 19 - 4PM (Reply to #13)
midnight7
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Dear mustmoveon, the best

Mar 19 - 1PM
knighty2035
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Interestingly.....

Mar 19 - 1PM (Reply to #8)
mustmoveon
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Wish my N would kick the bucket...

Mar 19 - 2PM (Reply to #10)
KayJayGee
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Are there ever consequences?

Mar 19 - 1PM (Reply to #9)
knighty2035
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Think of it this way!!

Mar 19 - 1PM
Armed
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My deA

Mar 19 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
Snowflake
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Armed

Mar 19 - 12PM
Used
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If he had a STD He wouldnt

Mar 19 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
Snowflake
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Used

Mar 19 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Used
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snowflake

Mar 19 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
Snowflake
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I was vulnerable and for the taking