Narcissist or not my heart is broken into a million pieces HELP :(

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Apr 16 - 4PM (Reply to #11)
sara-smile
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TLSM

Haaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! LOL LOL! After I saw my Narc's new GF I started calling her CHUNK! Isn't that AWFUL!? I would always say "the chunky new Gf" or anything else I could think of referring to her size. I have no idea why I was so AWFUL it wasn't her fault he found his new victim. He is all about image......HIS IMAGE so I knew that it would KILL him if I didn't think she was beautiful. I even went so far as to tell him that his friends thought the same thing. It drove him nuts. Obviously not too nuts cause he's still with her! I'm sure he tortures her about her weight and would have done that even if I hadn't said a word. So TLSM we ALL do crazy stuff because the IDIOTS drove of crazy!!! I turned into a complete lunatic!!! I can't even post some of the things I did. Nothing illegal! Just some things to torture him! :) She did post the FB pic to burn you so just ignore her! She's already insecure and why shouldn't she be!!?? Look what he did to her!!! Stupid Narc!
Apr 16 - 6PM (Reply to #12)
TLSM
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HA SS!

Chunk! LOL!!! Ok...I also called her a bagger! You know, she's so ugly he has to put a bag on her head when he screws her. I could've called her a double-bagger...Not only does she need to wear a bag on her head, but so does he incase hers falls off! Lol But I didn't. I'm pathetic for saying that because she is actually cute. Really cute- in a blonde college-party -girl kind of way and we know how thet will age.(she's not as cute as me!) I'm sure a lot of us scorned women did crazy stuff. The narcs insanity is contagious. I haven't looked at her profile pic or his business website in almost 2 weeks. Seeing that pic of them 2gether killed me. I don't ever want to see that again. It was sooo immature of me! But like your ex, my ex totally worries about his image so I know it bugged him a little bit. Maybe it made him like her more? Whateva.
Apr 15 - 7PM
Deidre40
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{{{hugs}}} I am so very

{{{hugs}}} I am so very sorry. We all know your pain. May I ask...is your story on here somewhere where I can read more? I just want to get the full gist of what happened between you both.
Apr 15 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
TLSM
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Oh Deidre!

You're so sweet to want to know my background/story. Its a long and rushed story. Couldve done better. Oh well. Would you give me link to yours too? http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2011/04/09/tlsms-story
Apr 15 - 7PM (Reply to #2)
Redhead1
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You didnt make him do the

You didnt make him do the things he done. He is that way on his own. My Narc was mean as heck and I never reacted crazy. I always just said you know if thats what you want, feel etc then ok. When I did call him out, he- would say I was putting my spin on it. I just learn to skate around him. He looked at that like I didnt care. I mean if he wants to go date, that's his choice. It hurt me, but I am not his mommy or his conscience. I was suppose to beg, cry and give him reasons why I was so much better than the other women. Why I didnt deserve to be ignored. Why I should be his choice. Balonie, thats childs play. You made none of his reactions what they were. You just happen to be on the receiving end of them. The next one he is in a relationship will get the same treatment. Just like, without healing and growing, I will get the silent treatment, neglect etc. I allowed him to do that, but I will not let another man do it. I have also stopped people in my family from overstepping my boundries. I am rambling, but hope you understand xoxoxo
Apr 15 - 8PM (Reply to #3)
TLSM
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me too!

Thank you!!! I am making my boundries stronger where friends and family are concerned since this has happened. I want to believe he will treat girl the same. Its very hard.