Narcs LOVE to blame and make YOU look bad.
IN fact if they have YOU thinking YOU are the crazy one; it's an added bonus to them.
Once the honeymoon faze is over and they can see you "catching" on to them; then it is all about blaming YOU and having OTHERS think you are crazy as well.
Just another day in Narcville.
The details may vary; yet the game and intent is always the same.
Takes the focus off of them and if YOU think it is your fault then my goodness you may just take them back and go a few more rounds.