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PSYCHIC CORD CUTTING
Ive been seeing many posts regarding PSYCHIC CORD CUTTING..
Really??? Hocus Pocus Dominiocious >>> NARC NARC go away.. There .. Go to our Pay PALE account and make a Dontaion you're Cured..
Ill tell you what I did and it didnt cost a penny...However donations are always welcome..
My narc called to D&D for the last time almsot two years ago..
He said "I was insecure", "I know nothing about relationships", "We are just friends".. BLAH,BLAH,BLAH..
He want form "I LOVE YOU HONEY" to This.. What?? Who is this masked man??..
So I had three converstions that went bad.. I CUT the Psychic cord all right .. Oh.. I mean the Phone Cord.. I said " FUCK YOU" hung up and never spoke to him again..
Then the real work began.. Thearpy, Reading, The volunteer help from the Mod Squad, and Time..Dont be fooled this is a long journey..
That's how you cut the cord ladies.. Get Real and do the work..If you think there is a quick fix to the problem Im here to save your pennies .. Its doesnt work that way..
NO CONTACT is MY GOD of choice when in Narcville..
Hunter
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Hunter
May 21, 2013 - 6:15am — AllesandraAfter you said "F**** You" did he try and squirm his way back?
I'm someone
June 11, 2012 - 11:08pm — whitneywolfI'm someone who much-previously posted about psychic-cord cutting. I'm not an adolescent hoping Hogwarts is real. I do believe in meditation and visualization and question why God is in question, here.
Psychic cord cutting
May 23, 2012 - 8:08pm — iwanttohealI had my "psychic cords" to narc "cut" by 3 different "specialists". I live in a VERY NEW-AGEY town.
Two of whom were highly recommended healers with long histories of formal spiritual training (one in Buddhism).
I also had multiple "clearings" of the narc, and just to be thorough both of my parents and my sibling, incase the narc was somehow in my life because of "father issues."
NONE OF IT WORKED!!!
DON'T WASTE YOUR MONEY!
For me nc is a long long hard road, with help of a wonderful counselor, I am progressing...
NC is the only solution.
So how does no contact work,
May 14, 2012 - 10:21am — ntessaSo how does no contact work, when you have two children with him and a court order for visitation?
I ONLY text, email or speak to him when there's something I have to respond to regarding our children. I've tried to have my daughter (who's 8, son is 5) to take a cell phone so we can talk directly - but he won't let her use it, so calls only come through his phone once a day.
How did you get your ex to let go of your kids?
In your case, LC, limited
May 14, 2012 - 10:25am — SparrowIn your case, LC, limited contact is the obvious. It sounds to me like you are doing all the right things, taking all the right measures. Soon, the children will be at an age where they will be using a cell phone and their Dad won't be able to "control" them in regards. Be patient, in time this will evolve.
As far as having to contact him in order to speak to the kids, try and have them call you directly. If that doesn't work, keep doing what you are doing. Sounds like you have a pretty good handle on things in that aspect.
Hear Hear, Hunter!
May 12, 2012 - 5:26am — WallaceI totally agree. The N is just a symptom and we need to get real and do the work to:
1) find out what attracted us to the N in the first place
2) work on our own underlying isssues
3) learn to spot the red flags, LISTEN to our gut instinct and try not to get involved with one of these freaks again.
Psychic cord cutting is like diet pills - if it sounds too good/easy to be true, it usually isn't!
Have a fantastic weekend.
Mine too!!!!
May 11, 2012 - 9:11pm — sexy72NO CONTACT has to part of everyones journey to healing and moving on...if you don't go NC you will not and cannot heal completely...I truly believe this and say it over and over on here all the time! I NEVER thought I could do it...but once you do ...day one, day two, day three, one week, two weeks, one month, two months, three months....if I can do it ANYONE can...just take it day by day and if you fall start over, but once you get over the smallest hump...it just all comes together and you know in your heart that you just can't give this dumb ass NARC one more ounce of your energy ever again!!!!!
I went for a walk...
May 14, 2012 - 12:27am — dmtphxChapter One
I went for a walk down the street there was a hole in the sidewalk. I fell in. It took a long time to climb out.
Chapter Two
I went for a walk down the street there was a hole in the sidewalk. I went around it. I fell in. It took a long time to climb out.
Chapter Three
I went for a walk down the street there was a hole in the sidewalk. I pretended not to see it. I fell in. It took a long time to climb out.
Chapter Four
I went for a walk down the street there was a hole in the sidewalk, I looked in and with eyes wide open I fell in. It took a long time to climb out.
Chapter Five
I went for a walk. I took a different street.
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Great allegory
June 10, 2012 - 10:13am — Rising DawnI love this! What a perfect way to tell the story of encountering an N, the cycle that follows, and finally, personal triumph.
Thank you!