My friend, Mia Dawn McKenzie, has written an incredible book that I highly recommend to anyone starting to date again after being in a relationship with a narcissist.

The title is “What Men Want, Like and Desire in a Woman.” While the title implies you will learn what you need to do to get the man of your dreams, that is NOT the point of the book or why I find it so empowering.

In my opinion, the message of this book is not about how to get a man. It is about how we as women need to stop trying to figure out what men want and instead figure out what we want and never settle for less. Only by doing this, will we get the love we deserve.

Due to our history with a narcissist, many of us often think men want us to cater to their needs and be overly accommodating, but the truth is a real man is not interested in that. A real man is interested in a woman who is strong, independent and has her own life and interests.

A relationship should enhance our lives, not complete it. The elusive Disney Fairy Tale Myth and deceptive Tom Cruise quote from Jerry McGuire couldn’t do more to disillusion our youth about the reality of love. Unfortunately, repeated societal messages like this only set us up for major disappointment in life.

If we learn to look at love realistically, however, we will obtain the clarity and vision we need to find that person deserving of our love. This book will help you do this.

We talk a lot about the importance of retraining and reprogramming our brain after being in an abusive relationship with a narcissist. Narcissists have us trained to believe we should do whatever it takes to please them, right?

Well, if we behave in this same manner towards a healthy man, he will be turned off. Believe me, this book really helps us finally see the part we play in sabotaging good relationships and will empower us to never settle for less.

If you have ever read “Women Who Love Too Much” or “Why Men Love Bitches” and had the same kind of “aha moment” that I did, I know you will appreciate this book!

The link to Mia's book is located in right lower corner of site or simply click below to access:

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"When I say, 'I love you,' it's not because I want you or because I can't have you. It has nothing to do with me. I love what you are, what you do, how you try. I've seen your kindness and your strength. I've seen the best and the worst of you. And I understand with perfect clarity exactly what you are. You're a hell of a woman.” ~ Spike to Buffy